Hi, I am 21, and I need to lose about 50 lbs- the only problem is that I am absolutely terrified. I am afraid of men being attracted to me after I get to my ideal goal. I think I feel this way because I was sexually abused as a child, and once I gained weight, I didn’t have to deal with male attention.
I just was wondering if anyone has felt like this before or has overcome their weight loss fear? Or any advice other advice would be good too! Thanks-
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I have to say that if you do lose weight you will get attention but all this comes down to are you willing to deal with it. I mean lets look at the positives here if you do lose weight you will be allot healthier allot fitter and feel allot better about yourself.
I just ask you this question so you can really reflect on your own answer are you happy the way you are now ?
If the answer is yes then keep doing what your doing now , now if your answer is no then you need to consider what you really want for yourself , I recommend moving forwards and not looking back .
I hope this helps
You are wise to avoid the fear. Your life is needing some other kind of friends. It is a matter of finding people who think as you do. Good luck and be happy first skinny second.
You SHOULD lose weight for your health! And you should seek counselling, or go to your church leader (priest, pastor, etc) for help.
watch a fat person eat.
dont think about u should like urself of who u r